A day of talks for singles, dating and married couples!
Relationships are not always easy so we are bringing in 5 speakers to share their wisdom and experience to help us navigate the relationships we are in or prepare for the relationships we desire.
Brought to you by the St. Martin of Tours Young Adult Ministry and made possible by the generous support of the Catholic Community Foundation of Santa Clara County in the form of a grant.
Below you will find the following information:
• Schedule
• Topics and Information on the Speakers
• FAQ
Schedule:
9:00 AM Gather and Introduction
9:30 AM Talk 1: "The Power of Self Discovery in Finding Your Spiritual Match."
10:40 AM Talk 2: "Communication"
11:40 AM Lunch (provided)
12:45 PM Talk 3: "Keeping Your Relationship Charged"
1:55 PM Talk 4: "Human Connection: A Meaningful Attachment"
3:00 PM Panel Discussion
3:45 PM Wrap up
Topics and Speakers:
Talk 1: "The Power of Self Discovery in Finding Your Spiritual Match"
When you know yourself deeply, you are more self-aware and know better how to manifest and sustain an intimate relationship. Learn about your values, beliefs, and assumptions so you may create a spiritually based union with your partner for life.
By: Javier and Christina Llerena
Javier and Christina Llerena have been involved with San Jose Catholic Engaged Encounter for over thirteen years, even serving in the marriage preparation ministry before they were married. Their non-profit ministry and book by the same name, "Boundless Love" was born out of facilitating retreats for several hundreds of couples and God's good grace. Over the past ten years, their two daughters attended Sunnyvale Christian School, which has transformed their relationship with God. During that time, Javier and Christina joined the San Jose Cursillo movement and were called to share their transformational marriage story. Their mission is to empower one million couples to put faith at the center of their relationship and trust God.
Talk 2: "Communication"
In addition to covering the various aspects of normal day to day communication, Deacon Peloso will open Jesus' pointed instructions on how to have the best, most loving communications with everyone.
By: Deacon Dominick Peloso
Dominick Peloso, after a 31 year career as a police officer, has been a deacon for the Archdioceses of San Francisco for 20 years. He and his wife are involved in many activities and devotions, including having presented Marriage Preparation Classes for the last 30 years.
Talk 3: "Keeping Your Relationship Charged"
Relationships can be compared to your cell phone if you don’t keep it charged you can lose connection.
By: Kathy Fenn
Kathy Fenn is a Marriage and Family Therapist in private practice in Bakersfield. She has been married for 34 years and has four adult children. Kathy has a love for languages and travel.
Talk 4: "Human Connection: A Meaningful Attachment"
Meaningful attachment provides us a space to expression our feelings and thoughts in the midst of the vulnerability due to fear, guilt, hurt, and sadness, through basic and honest human connection. Wouldn't it be wonderful if we were able to honor each others' unique journeys so we could dare to be authentic and reach out potential?
By: Anna Nguyen
Anna Nguyen is from Vietnam. She is married and has two adult children. She likes to work with youth, those experiencing homelessness, and families caught in the court system. She is currently serving low-income population at a nonprofit counseling agency.
Frequently Asked Questions:
Who is the target audience?
This series of talks is not just for singles, nor is it just for those who are dating or married. It is for anyone in a relationship or hoping to be in a relationship and wanting to learn more about how to deepen that relationship and navigate the inevitable challenges that arise in any relationship. While the retreat is put on by the Young Adult Ministry of St. Martin of Tours, it is not limited to young adults! Whether you are in your 20's, 30's, 40's, or 90's you are welcome!
When does registration close?
- Registration is open until Thursday February 13th at 11:30pm. The cost is $10.
- You can also register at the door for $15.
How much is registration?
The cost to register is $10 plus the processing fee (~$2.24). Our generous grant will cover the cost of our speakers, as well as the coffee and snacks that will be provided, but to cover the cost of lunch for everyone we are asking for $10 per person.
If you register at the door the cost is $15. We encourage everyone to register by Thursday Feb 13th if possible to make ordering lunch easier.
Are there scholarships?
Yes! We want everyone who wants to come to be able to come! If you would like a scholarship to cover the registration fee please do not hesitate to ask for one! You can email us at faith@smyoungadults.com and put 'Day Retreat Scholarship' in the subject line.
Can I get a refund if I change my mind?
Yes! We can give refunds until Thursday night at 11:30pm. Only the processing fee cannot be refunded, per Eventbrite's new policies. You can request a refund through the Eventbrite page. Log in to your Eventbrite page, find your ticket and click on 'request a refund'. If you have trouble, please send us an email at faith@smyoungadults.com with 'Day Retreat Refund' in the title.
What is for lunch?
The lunch will be sandwiches and salad from Panera or a similar bakery/lunch place.
We will also have coffee, lemonade and light refreshments available throughout the day.
