Friend or flame @ Stache WeHo: A Speed Dating Party | Queer Edition

Tuesday February 13, 2024 at 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM ($20 – $25)

8941 Santa Monica Boulevard West Hollywood, West Hollywood, California United States - Stache West Hollywood
West Hollywood Stache West Hollywood
Speed Dating



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7:00 PM - 8:00 PM

Cocktail Hour

8:00 PM - 9:00 PM

Speed Dating

9:00 PM - 10:00 PM

Mingle/Party/Dance w/ our resident DJ

About this event

  • 3 hours
  • Mobile eTicket

friend or flame is partnering with Stache West Hollywood to present to you a night of smoldering conversation, cocktails to quench your thirst, and fiery connections that’ll have you feelin’ the heat. ?

Whether you are in the market for a flirty new friend or a scorchin’ hot flame, our premiere singles speed dating event invites you to come spark a connection with us. And remember, it’s going to be lit!

This round of F/F is for queer hotties looking to ignite the flame. The speed dating portion of the evening will take roughly 45 minutes (and trust us, time incinerates when love sparks!)

Combust a move with us on February 13th, 2024 from 7p-10p.

How does speed dating work @ friend or flame? Each speed date will be 2 minutes long, with the speed dating portion being approximately 45 minutes. You never know if you're going to find a friend or flame ?

Attire: Whatever expresses your own personal sexy flare ?♨️?

Tickets: Earlybird - $20 (sales end Jan 31), GA - $25, At The Door - $30

Ages: 21-40

A Friendly Note: We’re always working towards being a safe, inclusive, and warm environment for every orientation and gender expression. While we’re still growing, we don’t yet have the audience for pansexual, bisexual and gender nonconforming exclusive events, but any and all expressions are welcome at this event. ? Currently, the speed dating portion of this event will be split by queer individuals interested in male-presenting folx and queer individuals interested in female-presenting folx. We share this note to help guide those who may feel more comfortable waiting for future, more specialized events. We want all to feel informed and welcomed into our space. ?

*SEARIN’ HOT REMINDER: creating a safe and inclusive environment is our top priority. F/F will absolutely not tolerate aggressive or disrespectful behavior from anyone towards any of our guests and reserve the right to extinguish anyone from the event (aka — jerks will be immediately REMOVED). Additionally, this is a public event. The event space is open to the general public for relaxed fun and flirting.


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**Please note photography, audio and video recording may occur. By entering the premises you consent to the free use of your image, voice, and likeness by Gren Events/Friend or Flame for documentation, marketing and other uses. By purchasing a ticket, you agree to waive and indemnify Gren Events and its agents, representatives, principals and performers, against any and all claims for injury, damages, or compensation.

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